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Social networks and kinky communities

I have a profile on most social networks and kink-oriented sites, but I set them chiefly to prevent hoaxers from impersonating me (yes, it happened). Unfortunately I don’t have the time to follow those sites with any regularity, so I apologize if accepting your friendship request or answering your messages can take quite a bit of time.

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