Sadistique is approaching – read the FAQs


The first Sunday of March is approaching, and with it Sadistique, the monthly BDSM play party attended by kinksters from all over the country – and often abroad. Of course you can read about the basics of this event on the official website, so I’d like to take the opportunity to answer those questions I hear again and again about the party, simply by copying its FAQs:

Why do I have to follow the dress code to participate?
Because this will help creating a special ambience removed from everyday life; because it is the first step in turning your erotic fantasies into reality; because this keeps unwanted curious people out.

Will I have to do anything?
Surely not! You’ll only do what you like and prefer, in the utmost respect for everyone. Yet we suggest you to come with some ideas about what you’d like to do, so you won’t waste your time playing wallpaper.

Will I be photographed or recorded?
Absolutely not. Nobody has any reason to, and the law is very clear about your privacy rights. But if you want to, you can ask the staff to take your picture whenever you prefer, so you’ll have a souvenir of the event.

If I come alone, will I find a partner?
This is up to you. If you’ll be well-mannered and interesting, the chances are more than enough…

If I come alone, will I be sieged by single guys?
The organization does its best to avoid having too many singles in, and the ambience is usually very respectful. If you say “no” it’s no… and those who can’t understand will be booted out.

I never tried BDSM. How can I start?
Here! At the party you’ll find many persons who’ll be glad to help you and answer your questions. In the meantime, if you want to learn something you can have a look at Ayzad’s website. 

Is this a swingers’ event?
No. Although you are free to set up group games or swap your partner, Sadistique is a chance to play BDSM. For “vanilla” sex there are so many other occasions…

So it’s no sex at all, then?
Let’s put it this way: you can also have sex, but within a BDSM play and in any case respecting other guests, who’ll probably want to use the place to do other things. If you really have the irresistible urge to fuck, the club provides a great private area just for this purpose.

Are there prostitutes there?
The club doesn’t tolerate prostitution. Anyone practicing during the party will be booted out permanently.

So what are those prodommes doing among the guests?
The very same things everyone else does. They visit Sadistique to enjoy BDSM play and meet friends old and new. Every guest is treated the same, and is required to respect the same rules.

Will I find drugs inside?
Absolutely not. Apart from being illegal, to keep one’s mind clear is essential to play good BDSM.

Is it all clear? If you want to spend a really unique afternoon, then, see you there!